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Sports psychologist advises athletes on handling anger during matches

Sports psychologist Tim Koning said athletes can learn to recognize and regulate anger before it escalates. His advice followed an outburst by FC Groningen goalkeeper Etienne Vaessen, who will receive professional support from the club to help him deal with his emotions. Koning said physical signs such as a tense jaw, teeth grinding and a tongue pressed against the palate can indicate rising tension.

Koning recommended controlled physical outlets, including squeezing a ball, biting a towel or stamping, as well as naming emotions and showing self-compassion. He said teammates can help through so-called co-regulation by recognizing triggers and offering support while a player is still calm, but warned that intervening after someone has already exploded can increase their anger. Tennis player Tallon Griekspoor and hockey player Duco Telgenkamp were also cited as athletes who have spoken about emotional outbursts and their effects on performance.

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Etienne Vaessen apologizes and seeks professional help after red card

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FC Groningen goalkeeper Etienne Vaessen apologized to supporters after being sent off in the 3-4 home defeat to AZ. He had conceded a late penalty and received a second yellow card after protesting to referee Martijn Vos; reports said he was difficult to calm after the dismissal. Vaessen said he had again failed to avoid a situation he did not want to be in and that his conduct had let down the club, teammates, staff, employees, supporters and himself. He said he will receive professional support, with the club's help, to manage his emotions. He is going offline for the time being and will not give interviews during that period.